port install php5 +apache2 +fastcgi +pearUntil now.
When I tried out PHP 5.4 recently using an early portfile for it, I noticed it didn't have the pear variant anymore. I inquired about this and learned that there also won't be that variant anymore. Instead one should install PEAR using the separate packages provided for this. So I decided to start using this for my regular PHP 5.3 setup as well, as it seems more future proof. Works fine if one knows how to set it up.
port install pear-PEARThat almost it. The pear command ends up in /opt/local/lib/php/pear/bin, so you want to add that to your path. Also be aware you need to reinstall PEAR packages you already had installed with the old PEAR.
The nice thing about the new setup is that everything pear-releated is in it's own directory as opposed to the mix of PEAR and other stuff I had before.
When all was set up I installed what I needed using the pear command directly, even though the MacPorts people would love you to use the already ~550 ports available with PEAR packages (see port search pear-).
Hope that helps someone.